Self improvement series.They are acquired through constant practice.They are inculcated from childhood and become second nature to use by the time we grow up.Can the ability to get long smoothly with others in the social getup be learn or is it a trait you were born with? While charming people comes naturally to somemost of us have to relate to others. this learning and imbibing is what is known as having "Good Manners and Etiquette."